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What
have we Learned from 30 Years of Research on Families in Divorce
Conflict?
By Elizabeth M. Ellis, Ph.D.,
Atlanta, Georgia
http://www.trowbridgefoundation.org/current_article.htm
The following
is a summary of highlights of the text, Divorce Wars, Interventions
with Families in Conflict, (APA Books, 2000). The text is a review
of research in a number of key areas and is intended as a reference
work and manual for psychological experts in the courtroom and the
attorney who wishes to be knowledgeable regarding the scientific
literature in this field. The book also contains case studies, guidelines
for clinicians, charts and data tables, as well as a complete bibliography.
(The last two chapters, on ethical dillemmas and future trends in
the area of divorce and family law, have not been reviewed here).
This summary
is organized in a list of pertinent questions and brief responses
to these questions. For the full text please order a copy from APA
Books, 1-800-374-2721, or view the entire series of books on Law
and Psychology online at 222.apa.org/books/
I WHAT ARE THE
EFFECTS OF DIVORCE ON CHILDREN?
(1) In terms
of the effects of divorce on children, as a group, we can conclude
that divorce roughly doubles the rates of emotional and behavioral
adjustment problems in children. Though the effect sizes are small,
they are very consistent (see: Gregory, 1965; Hetherington, 1989;
Hetherington, Cox, & Cox, 1985; Hetherington, Stanley-Hagan,
& Anderson, 1989; Wallerstein, 1985; Wallerstein, 1991; Wallerstein
& Blakeslee, 1989; Wallerstein & Kelly, 1980b; Zill, Morrison,
& Coiro, 1993; Zimiles & Lee, 1991).
(2) The effects
of divorce on boys appear to be more immediate and dramatic, especially
in mother-headed households. These are increases in aggressive,
disruptive, acting out behaviors. Boys in single-mother households
are considered to be "developmentally vulnerable" and
at risk for high levels of acting out behavior (Gregory, 1965; Kalter,
1977, 1987; Hetherington, 1989; Hetherington, Cox, & Cox, 1985;
Warshak, 1992; Zaslow, 1988, 1989; Zimiles & Lee, 1991).
(3) The effects
of divorce on girls (provided mother doesn't re-marry), are minimal,
until adolescence. Girls of divorce show no increased risk of behavior
problems, as compared with girls from intact families, until adolescence.
Then, they show increased rates of running away, skipping school,
sexual promiscuity, and acting out. These girls are more likely
to drop out of school and become pregnant outside of marriage. This
has been dubbed "the sleeper effect". (Allison & Furstenberg,
1989; Hetherington, 1989; Hetherington & Deur, 1971; Hetherington,
1991; Kalter, 1977; Kalter, et al., 1984; Hetherington, 1972, 1973).
(4) The adult
children of divorce experience lower levels of reported happiness,
higher levels of psychological problems, lower levels of marital
happiness, and a higher rate of divorce in their own marriages .
This is kown as the intergenerational transmission of divorce (Amato,
1996; Kulka & Weingarten, 1979; Glenn & Kramer, 1985; Glenn
& Shelton, 1983).
(5) Women who
come from divorced homes are more likely to have their own marriages
end in divorce than men from divorced homes. When both partners
come from divorced homes, the chances that their own marriage will
end in divorce is triple that of a couple who both grow up in intact
homes (Amato, 1996).
(6) What seens
to be transmitted to the children of divorce is a tendency toward
lower rates of education, early marriage, living together before
marriage, and a group of behaviors which can be described as: lower
commitment to marriage, infidelity, problems with anger management,
feelings of insecurity, neediness, demandingness, denial and blame,
contempt, and poor conflict resolution skills (Amato, 1996; Hetherington,
Bridges, Insabella, 1998).
At this time,
we are not sure if what is being transmitted is genetic-biochemical,
or behavior patterns that are learned, or some interaction of both.
See O'Connor,
et al. (2000), for a complete discussion of this topic.
II WHAT IS THE
MECHANISM THROUGH WHICH DIVORCE EXERTS A NEGATIVE EFFECT ON CHILDREN?
(7) The effects
of divorce on children are not explained through parental loss or
economic hardship. Children who lose a parent through a lengthy
illness or even death fare better than the children of divorce,
and economic status post-divorce is not a good predictor of chldren's
adjustment. Mother's remarriage, which is associated with a higher
standard of living, is not associated with improved outcomes for
children (Amato & Keith, 1991; Rutter, 1971; Rutter, et al.,
1976; Shaw & Emery, 1987).
(8) The effects
of divorce on children occur largely through the effects of inter-parental
conflict on children, both before and after the divorce (Amato &
Keith, 1991; Amato & Rezac, 1994; Amato, Loomis, & Booth,
1995; Buchanan, Maccoby, & Dornbusch, 1991; Camara & Resnick,
1988, 1989; Emery, 1982; Kline, Johnston, & Tschann, 1991; Long,
Slater, Forehand, & Fauber, 1988; Rutter, 1971).
This is one
of the most consistent findings and the above reference list is
abbreviated. Amato and Keith (1991) reviewed 15 studies. Emery (1982)
reviewed over 20 studies, most of which are not listed above.
The "high
conflict" factor predicts a poor parent-child relationship
(#11), predicts the outcome of joint custody (#28), and predicts
whether time with the non-custodial parent is benefecial or distressing
(#38).
(9) Children
and teens from divorced homes where there is no conflict, fare better
than children and teens from intact homes where there is chronic
conflict. On the surface, one would expect children to benefit from
divorce based on this finding. However, in reality, the children
of divorce seem to endure years of conflict prior to their parents'
divorce; the conflict often ontinues unabated after the divorce,
or even intensifies; and many parents go on to marry again and have
highly conflicted remarriages. (Rutter, 1971; Long, Slater, Forehand,
& Fauber, 1988; Camara & Resnick, 1988, 1989; Kline, Johnston,
& Tschann, 1991; McCord & McCord, 1959).
(10) The type
of conflict matters. Children do not appear to be affected much
by conflict which is characterized by emotional distance and tension.
They are more negatively affected by conflict that is open, attacking
(both verbally and physically), and where the children are exposed
to the conflict and caught up in it (Camara & Resnick, 1988,
1989; Emery, 1982; Kline, et al., 1991; Buchanan, Maccoby, &
Dornbusch, 1991).
(11) The mechanism
through which inter-parental conflict exerts its negative influence
on the children of divorce is through a deterioration of the parent-child
relationship. Second and third divorces deteriorate the parent-child
relationship even further (Amato & Booth, 1996; Emery, 1982;
Hess & Camara, 1979; Peterson & Zill, 1986; Kline, et al.,
1991; Tschann, Johnston, Kline, & Wallerstein, 1989).
When children
live in intact families where conflict is low, 62% report having
a good relationship with both parents. Where conflict is high and
persistent, only 20% do so Where children live with a mother who
has divorced a second time, only 8% report having a good relationship
with both parents. Fully 46% report a poor relationship with both
parents (Peterson & Zill, 1986).
(12) The emotional
stability, warmth, and consistency of the primary custodial parent
is a strong factor in predicting children's adjustment to divorce.
Children who reside with a parent who is emotionally unstable, depressed,
and angry experience poorer outcomes (Emery, 1982; Hess & Camara,
1979; McCombs & Forehand, 1989; Thomas & Forehand, 1993;
Tschann, Johnston, Kline, & Wallerstein, 1989; Wallerstein &
Blakeslee, 1989).
(13) The effects
of chronic conflict on children also exert their effect through
inducing in the child a feeling of chronic stress, insecurity, and
agitation (Davies & Cummings, 1994); shame, self-blame, and
guilt (Grych & Fincham, 1993); a chronic sense of helplessness
(Davies & Cummings, 1994); fears for their own physical safety
(Davies & Cummings, 1994); a sense of rejection, neglect, unresponsiveness,
and lack of interest in the child's well being (Davies & Cummings,
1994; Fauber, et al., 1990; Fantuzzo, et al., 1991; Johnston, 1992)
III WHAT ARE
THE STATISTICS ON PARENTAL DIVORCE AND REMARRIAGE?
(14) Women are
by far more unhappy with the current state of marriage. They initiate
75% of divorces (Wallerstein and Kelly, 1980b), 76% (Koel et al.,
1988), or 80% (Furstenberg & Cherlin, 1991), depending on the
study.
(15) Second
marriages have a higher rate of failure. Furstenberg (1987) found
the rate of divorce of second marriages to be 56%. Glick (1984)
found the divorce rate of second marriages to be 57%. Baydar (1988)
found that 42% of second marriages ended within 5 years.
IV DO CHILDREN
BENEFIT FROM THEIR PARENTS' REMARRIAGE?
(16) In general,
no. If one reviews the large volume of studies on this question,
one finds that in about half the studies, children do a little better.
In about half the studies, children do a little worse. Although
the children might benefit a little from an increased standard of
living, these gains are offset by increases in inter-parental conflict,
and conflictual relationships with stepparents and stepsiblings.
To look at somewhat predictable findings, you need to look at factors
such as the child's age, and gender, and who it is that is remarrying.
(17) Broadly
speaking, remarriage appears to benefit young boys who live in single
mother households and whose fathers are absent or uninvolved. These
boys are eager for a male role model. Acting out behavior is reduced
(Hetherington, Cox, & Cox, 1985; Hetherington, 1989; Kalter,
1977; Zaslow, 1988, 1989; Zill, Morrison, & Coiro, 1991; Zimiles
& Lee, 1991).
(18) Broadly
speaking, remarriage fares rather badly when one is looking at adolescent
girls in single mother custody homes. They universally reject stepfathers,
despite the best of efforts on the part of mother and stepdad (Hetherington,
Cox, & Cox, 1985; Hetherington, 1989; Kalter, 1977; Zaslow,
1988, 1989; Zill, Morrison, & Coiro, 1991; Zimiles & Lee,
1991).
V HOW SUCCESSFUL
HAS MEDIATION BEEN?
(19) Of those
who attend and complete mediation, rates of reaching out of court
agreements are fairly high. Emery's (1987) review found rates of
55% in a California study and 64% in a Connecticut study. Emery
& Wyer (1987) report rates of 75%; Saposnek (1984) also reported
rates of 75%. Pearson & Thoennes (1984) reported that 50% settled
through mediation, and another 30% settled just before going to
court.
(20) Regarding
relitigation rates, Pearson and Thoennes (1982), Emery & Wyer
(1987) and Scott & Emery (1987) all report lower rates of relitigation
in the year following divorce in the group who mediated and settled
out of court.
(21) Mediation
appears to have no effect on children's post-divorce adjustment,
nor on the parents' adjustment, nor on the ability of the parents
to work together over the long-term (Pearson, Thoennes, & Hodges,
1984; Emery, 1988; Dillon & Emery, 1996; Kelly, 1996; Saposnek,
1998).
VI DOES GENDER
MATTER WHEN CONSIDERING PRIMARY RESIDENTIAL CUSTODY?
In general,
yes.
(22) Boys as
a group are happier and show lower rates of delinquency and school
drop-out in father-custody homes. (Camara & Resnick, 1988; Clarke-Stewart
& Hayward, 1996; Gregory, 1965; Peterson & Zill, 1986; Santrock
& Warshak, 1979; Warshak, 1996; Warshak & Santrock, 1983;
Zimiles & Lee, 1991).
(23) Girls,
as a group, are happier and show lower rates of delinquency and
school drop-out in mother-custody homes (Camara & Resnick, 1988;
Clarke-Stewart & Hayward, 1996; Gregory, 1965; Peterson &
Zill, 1986; Santrock & Warshak, 1979; Warshak, 1996; Warshak
& Santrock, 1983; Zimiles & Lee, 1991).
These results
are consistent and robust. There are no studies which find the reverse
- that children function better with the opposite-sex parent. However,
some have suggested that this may be an artifact of demographic
differences between mothers and fathers who are primary custodial
parents, e.g., fathers who pursue and are awarded custody are generally
more educated, more affluent, have more professional occupations,
and have been more involved with their children.
VII IS SPLIT
CUSTODY (SPLITTING THE CHILDREN) A BAD IDEA?
In general,
no.
(24) Split custody
is rarely recommended by courts and by custody evaluators (Maccoby
& Mnookin, 1992; Simons, Grossman, & Wiener, 1990; Greif,
1990; Hauser, 1995). However, there is no established research that
has determined that it is associated with poor adjustment to divorce.
Many writers
in the field have noted anecdotally that many families drift toward
split custody over time following the divorce as the children mature
and their needs change, or as the family composition of the two
households change. Therefore, it is a custodial arrangement that
is frequently naturally selected by families, and those families
report good outcomes (Greif, 1990, Hawthorne, 2000).
VIII IS JOINT
CUSTODY BETTER FOR CHILDREN?
(25) Parents
who share child rearing in joint custody arrange-ments (the type
of "joint" custody is frequently unspecified) are generally
happy with it and satisfied with it. They report that children see
their father more often. Mothers report feeling less overwhelmed
(Pearson & Thoennes, 1990; Rothberg, 1983; Luepnitz, 1986).
(26) Reports
on whether parents litigate less often with joint custody or have
less conflict are less clear. Some studies report lower rates of
re-litigation (Luepnitz, 1986; Ilfield, Ilfield, & Alexander,
1982); some report higher rates of re-litigation (Albiston, Maccoby,
& Mnookin 1990; some studies found no differences (Koel, et
al., 1988; Pearson & Thoennes, 1990).
(27) Children's
emotional adjustment is not associated with custodial arrangement
(Steinman, 1981; Luepnitz, 1986; Kline, et al., 1989; Pearson &
Theonnes, 1990; Johnston, 1995).
This is one
of the most robust findings in the literature. Johnston (1995) reviewed
14 studies and concluded that there were few, if any, differences
in the adjustment of children by virtue of the type of custodial
arrangement in which they lived.
IX WHO SETTLES
AND WHO GOES TO COURT OVER CUSTODY?
(28) Studies
show that the vast majority of divorcing families do manage, through
attorney bargaining, and through mediation, to settle out of court.
Estimates vary from "less than ten per cent" (Kornhauser,
1979); 10% (Maccoby & Mnookin (1992), to 10% to 17% (Rohman,
Sales, & Lou, 1987).
(29) Parents'
race, age, education, and income are not predictive of who goes
to court. Parents typically go to court over one or two very young
children (Maccoby & Mnookin, 1992; Dixon, 1991).
(30) Since most
mothers ask for and receive primary custody, the decision to litigate
over custody is usually made by the father, when the father expresses
disagreement with this arrangement (Dixon, 1991; Maccoby & Mnookin,
1991).
X HOW GOOD ARE
THE PSYCHOLOGICAL TESTS WHICH ARE USED IN CUSTODY EVALUATIONS?
(31) Though
psychological tests are widely used in custody evaluations, their
use in this context is, for the most part, highly spurious and scientifically
unsupportable (Brodzinsky, 1993; Grisso, 1986; Hawthorne, 2000;
Heinze & Grisso, 1996; Melton, Petrila, Poythress, & Slobogin,
1997; Weithorn & Grisso, 1987).
(32) There are
only a few tests which have demonstrated validity and usefulness
in custody evaluations. These are: the Child Abuse Potential Inventory
(Milner, 1990); Parent Child Relationship Inventory (Gerard, 1994);
the Parenting Stress Index (Abidin, 1990); and the Children's Reports
of Parental Behavior (Schaefer, 1965).
XI WHAT FACTORS
ARE CONSIDERED MOST IMPORTANT IN MAKING RECOMMENDATIONS FOR CUSTODY?
(33) In making
recommendations for custody, both judges and mental health professionals
place high value on the parent's stability and the presence of alcoholism.
However, mental health professionals tend to place higher value
on the children's bond with the parent and the children's wishes;
judges tend to place greater emphasis on issues such as whether
the parent is cohabiting, whether the parent is gay, whether the
parent has had an affair, etc. In other words, judges may come at
these issues with a more conservative bent and a focus on what society
may consider to be "moral character" issues (Lowery, 1981;
Felner, et al., 1985; Sorenson & Goldman, 1989; Reidy, Silver,
& Carlson, 1989; Keilin & Bloom, 1986; Ackerman & Ackerman,
1997).
XII HOW DOES
PARTICIPATING IN A CUSTODY EVALUATION IMPACT CHILDREN?
(34) Studies
of the impact on children who have been the subject of custody disputes
are surprising. They consistently indicate that participating in
the evaluation does not appear to be associated with poor outcomes
but rather with higher self esteem and a greater sense of control
(Ash & Guyer, 1986; Fulton, 1979; Wolman & Taylor, 1991).
XIII WHAT CAN
WE SOME SCIENTIFIC CERTAINTY AS TO WHAT VISITATION ARRANGEMENTS
ARE BEST FOR CHILDREN OF DIFFERENT AGES?
(35) Not much
at all. There are no controlled studies which indicate that any
visitation pattern is best for a child of a certain age. All we
have to go on is clinical experience, and extrapolations and educated
guesses which have been derived from the child development literature
(studies of babies in daycare; studies of infant attachment; studies
of separation anxiety, etc.)
XIV HOW COMMON
IS THE DENYING, OR BLOCKING, OF VISITATIONS?
(36) Quite common.
Non-custodial fathers report higher figures than custodial mothers,
naturally. Fulton (1979) reported that 53% of fathers had had their
visitations blocked; Pearson & Thoennes (1988) said 20% of fathers
reported problems with blocked visitations; Braver et al. (1991)
said 33% of noncustodial fathers reported loss of visitations; Arditti
(1992) reported a figure of 50%.
Custodial mothers
have admitted denying visitations in these ratios: 40% (Fulton,
1979); 20% (Wallerstein & Kelly, 1980); 40% Kressel (1985);
23% (Braver et al.).
XV DON'T MOST
CHILDREN BENEFIT FROM AS MUCH TIME AS POSSIBLE WITH THE NON CUSTODIAL
PARENT?
(37) Children
do not necessarily benefit from more time with the non-custodial
parent. If there are high levels of inter-parental conflict, children
may exhibit more adjustment problems with increased contact with
the non-custodial parent. (Amato & Rezac, 1994; Ash & Guyer,
1986; Baydar, 1988; Bray & Berger, 1990; Furstenberg, Morgan,
& Allison, 1987; Healey, Malley, & Stewart, 1990; Hess &
Camara, 1979; Hetherington & Parke, 1979; Hodges, Wechsler,
& Ballantine, 1979; Johnston, Kline, & Tschann, 1989; Kalter,
Kloner, Schreier, & Okla, 1989; King, 1994; Kline, Johnston,
& Tschann, 1991; Kurdek & Berg, 983; A. M. Thomas &
Forehand, 1993; Wallerstein & Corbin, 1989; Zill, 1988).
This is one
of the most robust findings in the research literature. I have compiled
17 studies at this time in which no association is found between
frequency and length of visitations with non-custodial dad and children's
emotional/behavioral adjustment. It is troubling, but remarkably
consistent.
(38) Children
seem to benefit from increased time with the non-custodial parent
when certain conditions are met: low levels of inter-parental conflict
and a warm, consistent relationship with the non-custodial parent.
They benefit from authoritative parenting with the non-resident
parent (i.e., advice and help with projects, supervision of homework;
discipline)... In other words, how often fathers see their children
is less important than what they actually do with them. (Amato &
Gilbreath, 1999; Clarke-Stewart & Hayward, 1996; Hetherington,
Cox, & Cox, 1982).
XVI WHAT CAN
WE SAY ABOUT HOW CHILDREN COPE WITH VISITATION DISPUTES AND INTER-PARENTAL
CONFLICT?
(39) There are
some broad, but consistent patterns in children's coping styles.
Young children (3 to 8), repond with intense physical and emotional
distress. Early elementary children responded with somatic symptoms,
avoidance, and active intervention. Late elementary and early middle
school age children tend to decrease feelings of distress as they
enter into alignments with one parent (Cummings, et al., 1984; Johnston
& Campbell, 1988; Johnston, Campbell, & Mayes, 1985; Johnston,
Gonzalez, & Campbell, 1987; Johnston, et al., 1989)
XVII WHAT ARE
FACTORS WITHIN THE CHILD WHICH PREDICT GOOD AND BAD OUTCOMES FROM
DIVORCE AND POST-DIVORCE CONFLICT?
(40) The child's
temperament is a strong factor in predicting poor outcomes to divorce
and various visitation arrangements. Children with disruptive, acting-out
temperaments experience poorer outcomes than those with easy temperaments.
(Block, Block, & Gjerde, 1986; Hetherington, 1991; Kasen, et
al., 1996; Grych & Fincham, 1997).
(41) Boys with
difficult temperaments fare very poorly with divorce, and these
boys can be identified as young as age 3 (Amato & Booth, 1996;
Block, Block, & Gjerde, 1986; Cherlin, et al., 1991; Jouriles,
et al., 1991). This seems to be due to a complex interaction between
the genetic transmission of certain temperament factors, poor parenting,
high levels of marital conflict, and even the destructive effect
of the boys' behavior on what was already a poor marriage.
(42) Cognitive
style is also a factor. Children who can "reframe" the
divorce in a positive way do better than those who don't (Radovanovic,
1993). Similarly, those children who appraise the divorce with a
sense of lack of control, a sense of loss, feelings of helplessness,
and self-critical feelings, fare much more poorly following divorce
and/or post-divorce conflict (Lengua & Sandler, 1996; Sandler,
Tein & West, 1994).
XVIII IS PARENTAL
ALIENATION SYNDROME A VALID PHENOMENA? IS IT THE SAME THING AS BRAINWASHING?
IS IT SIMPLY AN ATTACK ON MOTHERS?
(43) Parental
alienation syndrome is a predictable response in children exposed
to high levels of inter-parental conflict. It serves to reduce high
levels of stress, fear, and cognitive dissonance through a firm
alliance with one parent and the exclusion of contact with the other
parent (Gardner, 1982; Garrity & Baris, 1994; Johnston, 1993;
Johnston & Campbell, 1988; Johnston & Roseby, 1997; Lampel,
1996; Racusin, Copans, & Mills, 1994; Rand, 1997).
(44) P.A.S also
has many features in common with folie a deux - a more dependent
and submissive individual takes on the world-view of a more dominant
individual due to dependency, enmeshment, concern for the emotional
distress of the dominant person, and poor capacity to reality test.
The disorder is most often improved by separation of the parties.
The most common parent-child duo in cases of folie a deux are mother-daughter
pairs (Deutsch, 1938; Gralnick, 1942; Dewhurst & Todd, 1956;
Soni & Rockley, 1974; Sacks, 1988; Munro, 1986; Brooks, 1987;
Dippel, Kempel, & Berger, 1991, Mentjoux, van Houten, &
Koolman, 1993).
(45) P.A.S.
is most often a problem of mother-daughter pairs (Dunne & Hedrick,
1994); mother-son alignments (Wallerstein & Kelly, 1980b); or
mother-daughter and mother-son pairs equally (Racusin, Copans, &
Mills, 1994).
(46) Clinicians
and researchers differ as to suitable treatments for P.A.S. Some
lean toward swift intervention through the courts in extreme cases
and separation of the enmeshed mother-child pair (Gardner, 1992;
Cartwright, 1993; Lund, 1995; Kopetski, 1991). Others strongly oppose
separation of the mother-child pair (Garrity & Baris, 1994;
Johnston & Roseby, 1997). All agree with Dunne & Hedrick
(1994) that traditional methods of treatment are ineffective in
severe, intractable cases.
XIX WHY DO A
MINORITY OF PARENTS ENGAGE IN BITTER, PROTRACTED LEGAL DISPUTES
WITH EACH OTHER OVER THE CHILDREN? WHAT MAKES THEM DIFFERENT FROM
PARENTS WHO HAVE AMICABLE SETTLEMENTS?
(47) Parents
engaged in high levels of inter-parental conflict, before, during,
and after the divorce, appear to exhibit a cluster of personality
traits which are similar to the personality disorders (Johnston
& Campbell, 1988; Garrity & Baris, 1994; Wallerstein &
Kelly, 1980b).
(48) Research
studies have established that parents involved in protracted post-divorce
disputes have some personality/cognitive traits in common. They
have poor impulse control, are needy and demanding, have poor problem
solving skills, and deal with highly emotional situations through
the use of denial, blame, and defensiveness. They have difficulty
taking another person's perspective and have poor interpersonal
skills. They are more self-serving and less child-centered. (Ehrenberg,
Hunter, & Elterman, 1996; Hoppe & Kenney, 1994)
XX HOW COMMON
ARE FALSE ALLEGATIONS OF SEXUAL ABUSE IN CUSTODY DISPUTES?
(49) In intractable
cases, where experts are called in to conduct evaluations, rates
of sexual abuse allegations being declared false or unfounded are
55% (Benedek & Schetky, 1985); 36% (Green, 1986); 50% (Thoennes
& Tjaden, 1990, 160 cases); 75% (Wakefield & Underwager,
1991, 500 cases); 77% (Dwyer, 1986).
XXI WHAT IS
THE MOST COMMON PROFILE OF A MOTHER WHO MAKES A FALSE ACCUSATION
OF SEXUAL ABUSE IN A CUSTODY DISPUTE?
(50) Various
writers agree that this individual most commonly meets criteria
for a diagnosis of personality disorder - hysterical, borderline,
passive aggressive, or paranoid personality. For such an individual,
believing in the accusation fits into a cognitive schema in which
the accuser is a victim of a malicious husband, the child is an
extension of the accuser, and thus the child is a victim also (Benedek
& Schetky, 1985; Blush & Ross, 1987; Bresee, Stearns, Bess,
& Packet, 1986; Elterman & Ehrenberg, 1991; Green, 1986;
Klajner-Diamond, et al., 1987; Mikkelsen, Gutheil, & Emens,
1992; Wakefield & Underwager, 1991).
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Dr. Elizabeth
M. Ellis is a clinical psychologist in private practice in a suburb
of Atlanta. She is the author of Raising a Responsible Child (Birchlane,
1995), and over 20 scholarly papers in the fields of post traumatic
stress disorder, psychotherapy, and child and family forensic evaluations.
Her second book, Divorce Wars, was published by APA Books in May
of 2000. You may reach her at: 3346 Gwinnett Plantation Way, B-1,
Duluth, Georgia. 770-476-1967.)
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